Physical disabilities range across a very wide spectrum and vary from
individual to individual, but one of the biggest roadblocks to accepting
the "new you", is close mindedness... Life doesn't end with a traumatic
injury, it simply changes. Your perspectives change, your values,
priorities, etc... (At least mine did), and you learn to see things
through unfiltered eyes. I still use the term "before I got hurt"...
Before I got hurt I could run so far without getting tired, be
fore
I got hurt I could lift so much and need no help, before I got hurt I
could blah blah blah...
The scenario goes on and on, but while those
physical strengths may have dissipated due to injury and time, the
mental toughness that made me a good Marine still very much lives on and
I believe battles stronger. We need to see that the old you need not
die per say, but accept that changes in life occur and opportunities
around us abound. Opportunities to help, excel, reach out, press on, or
simply to be still... Help when you can, love where you are, and look
around to see those things in life we may have missed before our
injuries. That being said, The amount of handicap accessible activities on board ship were numerous... Ping pong, shuffle board, putt putt, lawn
chess, etc...
Let the games begin.